By Teddy Shabba Many men think that gaining rapport skills with women is something that either you have or don't have, and can not be taught. However just like may other seduction skills that where once thought of as "intuitive" can now be taught resulting in a dramatic enhancement of your rapport skills. Some of the benefits of using rapport skills to attract women: * Get along better with and influence beautiful women * Recognize when you are losing rapport with attractive women and take the necessary steps to regain it before it is entirely lost * Increase your chances of success with women early in the conversation * Attractive women will gain a stronger sense of how much you care * Gain confidence in your own abilities to attract women Some people will tell you that to use rapport skills to attract women is manipulative and deceptive. Yet, the truth is you can't not communicate or influence attractive women. It is not whether you influence women, but how you influence. All men that have any type of success with women achieve it by consciously, reliably and systematically using their skill with attractive women. Some of the consequences of not using rapport skills to attract women: * Significantly decreasing your chances of success with women as a whole * You can only connect with a limited range of women * Continuing to talk to women even when there is no connection there and all chance is lost * Many women will not trust you * Confidence in your abilities to attract women will decrease Most men can do a very effective job of establishing and maintaining rapport with some women, most with average women and in situations they are familiar and comfortable with. By consciously learning rapport skills you will also be able to use those skills with attractive women and in situations with these attractive women that are uncomfortable, unfamiliar or challenging in some other way. Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and moreArticle Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Teddy_Shabba